Pamela Anderson on her ‘communication’ with Tommy Lee

The actress admitted that although she would have liked to have a more cordial relationship with Lee, they had grown apart, likely due to his devotion to his new wife. Brittany Furlan.

The former couple eloped in 1995 after knowing each other for only four days and divorced in 1998.

Breaking years of relative calm regarding her most famous romance, Pamela Anderson has opened up about the emotional distance that currently separates her from her ex-husband, Tommy Lee.

During a revealing appearance on SiriusXM’s “Andy Cohen Live,” the 58-year-old “Naked Gun” star admitted that while she and the drummer share a complicated and storied past, their current communication has dwindled to almost nothing.

Despite the long silence, Anderson confessed to a deep sense of nostalgia and hope for a better relationship, stating bluntly: “I miss him.”

Anderson revealed that their youngest son, Dylan Jagger, is set to get married in an event she expects Lee and his current wife, Brittany Furlan Lee, to attend. Although she hasn’t spoken directly to the 63-year-old rocker in some time, she continues to monitor his well-being through their sons.

When Cohen pressed him on the barriers preventing a friendship, Anderson didn’t hold back. She suggested that while Lee is a “true romantic” who is deeply devoted to his current marriage, that dedication might be why he avoids “causing waves” by reaching out to her.

When asked if she thought their “communication” would be smoother if he wasn’t with his current partner, Anderson responded with a “yes.” Despite the tension, she insisted she still wishes the couple the best, recognizing that as they approach the age of grandchildren, their lives will remain forever intertwined.

This isn’t the first time Anderson has spoken out about the dynamic between her and Lee. During a promotional shoot for her 2024 film “The Last Showgirl,” the actress offered a candid insight into the cooling of their once-frequent communication.

“I mean, we used to talk a lot more. Not recently, unfortunately, but you know, I wish we had a better rapport right now,” she said, as reported by People Magazine.

Despite the current lack of relationships, Anderson remains optimistic about the long-term future of their family bond.

While acknowledging that they are currently going through a difficult “moment” of silence, she expressed her firm belief that things will improve.

Despite her public admission of missing the connection they once shared, Anderson previously reportedly shut down any talk of a romantic reconciliation with her ex-husband.

Although rumors swirled about the stability of Lee’s current marriage to Furlan, sources close to the “Baywatch” icon insist she has no plans to revisit their dating past.

According to The Blast, inside sources said Lee and Furlan faced significant obstacles, including a period of separation and growing concerns from those around them about Lee’s struggles with sobriety.

However, now thriving in her single life, the actress reportedly felt a sense of relief in being away from the chaotic “personal drama” that often surrounds her former flame.

While Anderson currently faces the delicate task of maintaining a peaceful distance from Lee’s personal struggles, her resentment toward those who took advantage of their past remains close to the surface.

This lingering frustration recently manifested itself in a “disgusting” experience at the 2026 Golden Globes, where the actress found herself uncomfortably close to Seth Rogen.

As executive producer and star of the controversial Hulu series “Pam & Tommy,” Rogen was a key architect of the project that dramatized the theft and distribution of her private sex tape without her participation or consent.