Ralph Pittman, Drew Sidora
David Becker/Getty Images for iHeartRadioTHE The Real Housewives of Atlanta star Drew Sidora shared an update on her living situation with her ex-husband Ralph Pittman.
“The man is still in the basement. Him downstairs, still there, and we’re still going through the process,” Sidora, 40, exclusively shared. Us every week at BravoCon 2025 on Friday, November 14. “I was actually supposed to attend my final trial today, so it’s been a very difficult and challenging day, but the judge allowed me to be here because it was so important for me to show up and be here. So I’m grateful.”
Sidora added that her divorce proceedings from Pittman, 42, “continue through January.”
“So 2026 will be a new day, new things, you know, we’ll see what happens,” she said.
When asked if she had started packing Pittman’s belongings, the Bravolebrity replied, “Look, I’m not going into that basement. You won’t catch me packing anything, okay? I’m upstairs and the kids are awesome.” (Sidora and Pittman share son Machai, 10, and daughter Aniya, 7. She is also mom to son Josiah, 14, from a previous relationship.)
Pittman filed for divorce from Sidora after eight years of marriage in February 2023, citing in court documents at the time that “there was no chance or hope of reconciliation.”
A Sidora representative later said We“For three years, the Pittmans welcomed millions of viewers into their home as they struggled to repair their marriage. Despite undeniable differences, they agree that their marriage is irreparably broken and are separating.”
Sidora revealed that they still live under the same roof despite their divorce during a July 2024 interview with Peoplerevealing that the decision was “court-ordered”.
Ralph Pittman, Drew Sidora
Mindy Petit/Getty Images“[The situation has] I was just crazy,” she admitted. “It would be a lot easier if we could move forward separately; you know, out of sight, out of mind, with your own space and your own energy. But this is clearly not planned. So sharing space was a double whammy.
She joked: “We’re kind of the model of a divorce as*** show.”
During an interview with Bravo’s The dish of the day in June, Sidora said things between her and Pittman were “good” when she was away from their home and traveling. However, the situation becomes “a little dysfunctional” when they are both present at the house at the same time.
“It’s uncomfortable when we meet, or when we try to get together and co-parent. And then you’re recorded, eating a piece of steak,” she said of their dynamic that was filmed for RHOA. “It’s better when there’s space. And I think once we have our own separate living quarters, it will probably become easier.”
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Even though Sidora says she “loves” her house, she might consider moving.
“Maybe I’ll just find myself another house in the same community,” said the Intensify » said the actress, explaining that she feels “safe” in her current neighborhood. “Because I could create new energy in my own home and experience things the way I like them.”
Sidora might even consider being next door to Pittman.
“I love my neighborhood, so I should probably stay in my neighborhood. So we’d probably be neighbors,” she told the outlet. “For the sake of the kids, I think keeping as much normalcy for them is really important.”
